Dealing With The Fear Of People’s Opinion
Have you ever felt like an alien at social occasions, or even asked people if they think you are weird? Or do your parents or friends have a big opinion about your decisions? Here is my way to stop carrying anymore! Enjoy
THE HORRIFYING THOUGHT OF PEOPLES OPINION
You see, People get criticised their whole life to fit in a social norm. Some high standards make it even worst. To be accepted you have to look good, dress well, be smart and be liked by everyone important. It shakes you up at night and leaves you drained out of energy in the morning.
Firstly you need to understand the reason you care so much is that you want to win approval. The future looks uncertain, especially when we change, we become vulnerable. Like when you first enter the new water and freeze for a while. Mentally you cannot tap out when it gets too cold. When life gets confusing, remember whatever you are dealing with is a mindset that can be changed.
SMALL MINDS CANNOT CONCEIVE GREATNESS
The perception of yourself will always be greater than the perception someone has about you. People who like to judge the decisions of others or tent to criticise are small minded. They cannot conceive greatness. If you aim for bigger things in life remind yourself daily why you are doing it.
HA HA HA 🙂
You see, becoming something requires fearlessness. The fear of someone’s opinion made me not come far in the past, and as soon as I started to accept myself, my purpose came closer every day. Laugh it off like you don’t have any shame.
DO NOTHING, SAY NOTHING, BE NOTHING
The only way to avoid criticism is to be nothing, do nothing and say nothing. Do you really want to be a no one? The vision of your future self should not allow you to pretend to be someone else but who you truly are. Therefore act unattached from someone else’s opinion, stop taking advise and seek support just emotionally.
PARENTS, FRIENDS AND SOCIAL MEDIA
Friend, parents or even strangers pretend to know whats best for you? Soon as you start to live by it, you truly live someone else’s life. But the universe reveals its secrets only to those who follow their hearts. So your part is to choose what you want and live by it. Judgment should also not be paid back equally. Be as good as you are and know that there will always be an opposition when you are set for big things.
NERDS RUN THE WORLD
To stand out, you have to be different, and then you will make a difference. Nerds run the world. Ignore the opinion of others, listen to your own heart and live your life. What makes a diamond special is its exceptionally well ability to stay stable under pressure. So remind yourself daily, that you are up to something great and in the process of becoming a nerdy diamond.
IN THE END NO ONE CARES ANYWAY
You know what. I won’t even do a proper end to this blog. Why? I feel like everything is said and I am done. You’ll hear from me anyways soon. In the mean time share this to properly educate the ones with the biggest opinions.
Love, Aya ©